Friendships/Relationships:
It's
easy to say 'the right thing'
(Part 2 the conclusion)
How Deep is your love?
(his = man or woman)
1. How deep is his love, if he just met
you.
2. How deep is his love? He's willing to have you sacrifice your
friends, that have been there for you, for years through thick and thin
and for someone you don't even know. And what if he is not
who he is frontin to be? Are your friends supposed to just
take you back now, when he walks out of your life?
3. How deep is his love? He would have you trust a total
stranger with your life, heart and emotions.
4. How deep is his love? Is he really gonna give up his friends just
because he's asking you to give up yours?
Well he impressed her enough that she
mentioned him to me and she ended up breaking off our
relationship. Of course I mean I was a friend and he doesn't
do friends. I also spoke with a female friend of hers and
they were no longer talking as well as another
friend of hers.
Well I met her almost a year later and yes
you guessed it they had broken up. I asked, why?
She said because he was too much of a liar. My thoughts were
OH, really? There's a surprise....and in all that wasted time
we could have gotten to know each other well as friends and maybe gone
on to the next level. Such a waste, it still effects me to
this day.
Now reverse the roles, if a brother says
let's be friends. You continue to meet people and see who you
want to, but let's spend some good quality time if you're interested
and get to know each other...
The lady says Noooooo, I don't
do friends...what are we supposed to think?
Are you putting off a good man
because you want to move so fast? Do you care about me or are
you just concerned about finding a partner at all costs,
without any concern for if it will really work or not. At
least you got a man!
Ladies if a man walks up to you, meets you
and is ready to marry you, he is either
1. deceiptful OR
2. very naive to believe that's all there is to selecting a partner for
LIFE is a nice warm fuzzy felling OR
3. selfish to expect that you would sacrifice your whole life to
someone you don't even know. OR likely
4. All the above
Friends/Just Friends
SISTERS it is OK to be friends and I don't
like that 'just friends' tag all the time. Sometimes it's
'just friends' if you don't think a lot of the serious potential of a
particular person. But sometimes it's not 'just friends'.
That slights the value of true close friendship. Close and
real friendships can be very rewarding, more so that many marraiges!!
Yeah, think about that!
If you meet someone that has serious
potential or not, Being friends first allows you to:
***Protect each other from the pain of
rejection or failure, there really isn't any if you were just friends
anyway. You just don't wanna go further.
***Allows you to get to know the real person not the fake front we may
deliberately put on or we may even unconsciously put it on and
not realize it.
***See the unselfishness in each other. Are you willing to risk loosing
someone if it means that person would be happier with someone else?
THAT'S REAL LOVE!
***See if they are mature and capable of making good
tough decisions (the first one being should we go further with
each other)
We could have relationships anytime we
want. If that's what you want. How many people have
you said no to. How many people want to be with you but just
ARE NOT your type. How many people would say HELL
YEAH, right now, if you asked them? But the goal is
happiness. Decide which one you want, just a relationshi or a
happy longlasting relationship. If it's to be happy then go
about it the right way to give yourself the best chance. Some
people say nothing is garaunteed but that's even more reason to give
yourself every chance possible to succeed.